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It’s all about usRead More

There are readers who focus on my grammar. When others connect they ask me for life strategies i.e. how to apply a wider perspective for more balance…

Signs of our Life and TimesRead More

They say that the truth bears scars and success or failure shows evidence in the form of cues and clues. That said, could we predict the future by…

“I see you”Read More

I wish I were sinless. I wish I were beyond reproach. I’m not. In fact the more I do, the chances of my mistake – making become higher. Constantly I work…

It’s all about meRead More

I’m an ego – maniac! I am that publicity – hungry attention seeker, that “know – it – all” writer – presenter who advises people to rediscover and…

Tribute to my sistersRead More

People often disagree with me when I say humans are born instinct – less. They confuse the drives we have (I like to call them the 4F’s – food, fight…

Not Something Added, But Nothing Taken AwayRead More

Can you recall a time when you gazed upon a newborn child? I remember when I first set eyes on my baby. I was overcome with awe and amazement at this…

I am Woman, Hear Me Roar!Read More

We live under the delusion of masculine superiority. No matter how many buckets of water she carries, how many children she conceives…

GO DEEPRead More

Please lady, please lady, don’t just walk away’ Cause I have this need to tell you why I’m all alone today…

Get A Grip with Tessie LimRead More

Love, truth, and righteousness are values that you and I would naturally support. What type of love, whose truth, righteousness according to what….

True PatriotRead More

Selamat Hari Malaysia! Yay! Woo Hoo! What exactly does this all mean? Unity is power. Diversity is strength. Wholeness is goodness. Okaaaay…

Unconditional Positive Self – RegardRead More

“I’m not good enough,” is a dis empowering belief many people have that often comes up during coaching…

Flirting with contradictionsRead More

The male peacock will dance and preen around the female, exhibiting its beautiful feathers. It wants to attract attention, to be seen as the most…

A Special Kind of DetectiveRead More

“We’re only halfway through,” the boss reminded. “I can see that some of you aren’t as enthusiastic as you were at the start of the project. What support…

The Ripple EffectRead More

It dawned on me that I was quite enjoying the euphoria – Malaysia’s economic growth reported at 5.4% in the 2nd quarter, EPPs (entry point projects) worth…

Real Men Don’t CryRead More

Real men don’t cry. Cry, and I’ll give you something to really cry about! Men who discuss their feelings are yellow bellied wimps. A man’s man sucks it in…

From breakdowns to breakthroughsRead More

“I’m declaring a breakdown. I’m committed to the profitability of this company and to our success as a team. By the way we are behaving we won’t achieve…

What’s your relationship to others?Read More

If I said you had to go to a party tonight where you wouldn’t know a single person, do you have a sense of how you’d behave there?…

Unleashing Personal PowerRead More

Children often talk like this. “He punched me first. He made me hit him!” “My teacher is lousy. So I failed the test.”…

Not Something Added, But Nothing Taken AwayRead More

Can you recall a time when you gazed upon a newborn child? I remember when I first set eyes on my baby. I was overcome with awe and amazement at this…

RUTHLESS COMPASSIONRead More

Living my forties at the turn of a new decade is like starring in a reality show called, “Change, or else.” The plot? Scathed by subprime…

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