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I don’t want others to know I get coaching. A colleague of mine told his friends that he was being coached and they began to avoid him as if something was wrong with him, as though he was seeing a shrink….

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Your comment, “Does a good woman submit…? Is my anger wrong?” got me thinking about how twisted we have become. We have to be ourselves, be true, be sincere, and honest. Silly me…..

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I was recently promoted when my former boss got transferred to another department. I want to lead in a way that gives the team what I didn’t get when he was leader. I felt our group was split into little cliques…

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My sisters accused me of breaking up someone’s marriage by being attractive to the groom. A few months after meeting me, the couple called off their engagement. A few years have passed and the irony is…

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I can’t believe half the year is gone. I feel tired and resigned that everyday is plodding on with no sign of refreshing my life. How can I upgrade my life? I want to look forward to something…

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I know our marriage is over but I don’t want it to end. I’m afraid I’ll lose the children and I don’t know how to live on my own because I haven’t worked in more than ten years. I’m unhappy but I’m also scared…

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I get frustrated when I don’t get response to my calls, letters, and emails. Then I follow up, but nothing. This happens more frequently with senior leaders in organizations. I guess they want me to know that…

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I observe how some teams come together seamlessly and show deference to the leader. My gang, however, are like mercenary bandits, in it for what they can get for themselves! How do I turn this bunch …

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My boss is a very accomplished woman. She is a competent leader and a visionary. What I cannot understand is why she is always busy and sometimes overwhelmed. Is that real success?…

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Can you motivate my sons to come and play a role in the family business? Both my sons show no interest in working with me in the business that I built from scratch. I’ve given them everything they could…

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I go to bars once in awhile to relax and unwind. When I get home I think of the girls who spent time with me while I drank. Although my friends take them home, I’ve stayed clear from any more than just a few drinks…

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I’ve become aware that I ask for support even when I know I can do the job. It’s like I need to know people are there whom I can lean on. I don’t feel confident when I’m attempting something on my own…

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If it were a perfect world, your philosophy would apply. Life isn’t black or white and things aren’t as simple as you make them out to be. It’s all nice and good to be idealistic, but in reality,…

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My weight bothers me so much that it’s affecting my lifestyle. Not that being heavy makes it hard for me to move about; it’s more about my confidence is so low that I feel people look at me and think,…

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What do I do with several people on my team who are just resistant and uncooperative? I’ve initiated discussions with them, I’ve kept them in email loops, I’ve asked other people to support them, I, myself keep…

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Just wondering what your conditions are for a romantic relationship. I’m doing poorly in this department; perhaps my expectations are too high and so I keep getting disappointed…

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Have you ever felt self – loathing and shame? I looked at myself in the mirror this morning and when I weighed myself, I found that I had put on 15kg. Imagine my horror at how I had let myself go. I know about health…

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I’m sitting for a major exam next week. I’ve been studying for the past few months. My promotion depends on it. I know my stuff but I’m worried. When I sat for this exam last year, I failed it by 2 marks…

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My marriage has gone stale. My wife and I – we are like roommates. She does her own thing. She has her own friends. I want us to be a couple again but I don’t know if it would work. What if she snubs me?…

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I’ve served my company loyally for 6 years and this year, because my girls are taking exams, I’ve asked that my role be reduced a bit at the office. My bosses are now unhappy with me and have found little…

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Is infidelity wrong? In this day and age are people still idealistic and clinging on to their religious obligations when the world has moved on and both sexes deemed as equal?…

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I feel bad a lot of the time. I just lost my job but I was depressed before that. I’m beginning to think I have a medical condition, hormone problems, or a vitamin deficiency. At what point do I need to see a doctor?…

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How do I work with someone who’s argumentative and aggressive? No matter what I do to stay calm there are times when I can’t help but react and lash out when the person becomes unreasonable…

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When you have a piece of news that’s not favorable to the other person do you tell or hold back? If you find out something about someone’s husband would you tell his wife? It would hurt them, …

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