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I can’t remember why I married my wife! How do I find out? I am in my mid – forties and it feels like a mid – life crisis because I don’t know what I’m about or where I’m headed. My wife is a beautiful lady…

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I feel frustrated that people often try to get away with not paying me my professional fee. It seems to be a culture in this country to try and get favors or things for free. From where did this type of thinking come?…

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It felt like I got run over by a bus when my boss mocked me in front of my colleagues. He made those scathing remarks in public and I felt humiliated. He said I’d never be a success if I continued to make those mistakes…

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I can’t seem to talk my son out of playing his video games. His attention span on other subjects is short and only when he is on his computer does he seem absorbed, happy, and focused. What choice do I have but…

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I’ve just retired and I am terrified of the label, “jobless.” I felt I was at my best, my most effective… and then my time ran out. Who will think I’m suitable for employment? Is it all going downhill from here?…

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How do we choose? I get so conflicted sometimes – when buying my spouse a gift, in wanting to do the right thing, to be seen the right way so as not to offend people. What if I am misunderstood? Is there a way…

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I notice I need people’s approval all the time. I want acknowledgement. I want those around me to keep reassuring me that I’m okay. I also notice that when I don’t get it I get edgy and unsure of myself…

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Can best friends be lovers at the same time and still hold the sexual excitement? Isn’t it like opposite ends of a seesaw where familiarity rises and sexuality decreases over time?…

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Can a leader have skeletons in the closet and still be effective? Can the leader operate on the platform of influence; can they take the moral high ground when they themselves have made mistakes?…

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I’m jealous of my husband’s ex. What can I do before this emotion engulfs me completely and erodes my relationship with my husband?

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I’ve been dating and dating but none of my relationships have lasted. Either I run, or they run! I want to trust and settle down and I know I may have to adjust my schedule, my expectations…

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I don’t feel accepted among the people I know. It feels like they want me to be a different way. They are always saying things like, “You don’t make us feel comfortable,” or, “The way you speak…

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I’m attracted to “bad” boys. I’ve asked my friends married to “nice” men if their partners are sexy and satisfying but they just roll their eyes. You can imagine I’ve had my share of problems…

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My children have no drive or ambition. I can see their potential and how much their gifts are going untapped but they are wandering aimlessly as if without direction. It’s like they…

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I work with men and women who gossip and complain. They grumble about everything. They say they complain so that things become better, so that people are aware of what’s not working. Being around these…

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Some people might call me an over – achiever but I feel aimless and empty. I don’t think of myself as successful, not if success means we get to have what we want. What I have doesn’t excite me…

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I can’t believe the year has gone so quickly. I’m afraid to think about the future; as it is I can’t keep up with the present and I’m actually not finished with my past…

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I am frequently exhausted to the point of illness. Overwhelm seems a natural state for me. I don’t think I can sustain this pace. My work is suffering and I feel my world will come…

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Why do people gossip so much? What pleasure can be derived from talking about other people? My girlfriends think I’m a loner because I prefer to keep to myself. They can’t understand…

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I get angry when people don’t keep their word. They make promises easily and agree to all kinds of things but don’t turn up or fail to honor their commitment.

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