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Referring to your last week’s story on Gen Y my question is how to build “team” between Gen X and Y when ideals, motivations, and values differ so greatly? Knowing Gen Y, what could a leader do to engage and drive peak performance?…

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How do I say what I feel without hurting others? Sometimes I bottle up because if I simply blurt, I would probably mess up and then have to clean up, which is harder. Then people won’t trust me or feel comfortable around me because they’d think I’m like a landmine. Explosions could happen any minute….

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My eyes blur when I look at spreadsheets. I’m no good with details. I can speak broadly about something but when someone asks for processes or blueprints, I freeze. It’s the one big stumbling block in my path to success and I don’t know how to overcome….

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I wish I had been able to see the signs. Now that we’ve been married for 12 years, I know in my heart the clues were all there but I just didn’t recognize them. How can I teach my daughter about heartaches waiting to happen? How to avoid men who are sure to make you cry?…

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I simply cannot get my colleagues to form a team. It’s, “Every man for himself.” I’ve done my best to be a role model and communicate respectfully…

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I simply cannot get my colleagues to form a team. It’s, “Every man for himself.” I’ve done my best to be a role model and communicate respectfully…

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Younger, more inexperienced people are beating me at slogan contests. Then I realized a serious loophole. ‘FB Likes’ can be purchased online for a pittance! I’ve written to contest organizers, and mainstream press to little effect…

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My GM is a great worker. What works against him is that he has such low self – esteem. He looks at worse case scenario all the time and this depresses his team. Just as he is hard on himself, he is hard on everyone around him. He’s aggressive compulsive…

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I have the fear of speaking up with people. The conversation always gets stuck when I’m talking to others. I end up with nothing to say and then walk away unhappy. How can I improve?

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My job takes me all over the world. I get to meet many wonderful people and stay at the best hotels but I’m single and this isn’t the best way to settle down. I’m 36 and I’m afraid it’ll be too late for me to start a family. I haven’t got a partner and I’m scared life will just pass me by…

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How do I deal with a boss that picks on me? He’s never satisfied with my work, always finding fault with whatever I do, and goes at me at every opportunity he gets. Talking to him is impossible because he won’t listen. I’m new at my job. I feel stressed and thinking of quitting….

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I’m single again after getting divorced 3 years ago. I’ve just begun dating again and now feeling open enough to enjoy male companionship once again. Although this town is full of gossip – mongers! It seems all I have to do is have lunch with someone and people have me engaged to the person…

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My boyfriend broke up with me twice and we’re still fighting. Everyone knows about this because I reached out for support. Last night we got back together but I think this is a wrong decision because I begged and pleaded with him to stay….

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My partner is an overbearing monster who is into himself so much he can’t see how his own warts contaminates the world. I am committed to our partnership because of our family business and so must tolerate his ways. Is there a formula for protecting my energy…

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My girlfriend left me. She just walked out without any explanation. We had been fighting for some months and working on understanding each other better. I thought we were close to a breakthrough. I feel terrible. Can I win her back?…

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I want to have a fulfilling life. I compare what I have to what some other people have and I believe I can have those things to. Will you coach me?

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I’ve been seeing this lady – friend of mine over the past few weeks. I have feelings for her (she’s hot) and we enjoy each other’s company. My wife thinks I’m having an affair but this lady and I, we’ve not actually slept together. I love my family but sometimes life is a drag. You know what I mean?…

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Why do people gossip so much? What pleasure can be derived from talking about other people? My girlfriends think I’m a loner because I prefer to keep to myself. They can’t understand why I don’t like lunching with them and sharing their stories about life…

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I get angry when people don’t keep their word. They make promises easily and agree to all kinds of things but don’t turn up or fail to honor their commitment. Then they behave as if it’s nothing;…

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What’s your understanding of wisdom? How different is that from knowledge? I see my children so stressed pursuing their degrees and MBAs when they can’t even find time to be with their families. I just don’t understand what life is all about actually. At the end of the day what do you get?…

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I’m frequently frustrated at not being able to communicate between generations at work. I lead a team where my colleagues’ ages range from 25 – 55. The hardest is the difference in attitudes and expectations. How do we train and manage that?…

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