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I plucked up enough courage to ask for his help and he slammed me. Just because he was in a position to gloat, he did. I felt so miserable. I misjudged him. I thought he would be kinder. When I walked away from there my knees felt weak. How will I live this down?…

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I feel tired. I’m not getting things done like I used to, I’m not interested in friends and family or going out for things I used to enjoy. I can’t concentrate. More and more I feel nothing good ever happens to me. Life is not worth living. How can I feel better? I just want peace….

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I watched a woman jogging the other day and my eyes followed her every movement. For a moment I was scared that my impulses would take over and I would lose control. Please tell me if my feelings are bad….

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My husband and I have been living apart for 3 months. We’ve been having trouble for more than 2 years. I’m deeply unhappy – I feel the trough is too deep for any sort of reconciliation…

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Can you explain the difference between ego and self – esteem?

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I was recently laid off due to a misunderstanding with the management. I have an interview for a new job coming up soon but I’m afraid what happened recently will affect my credibility. How can I go and do well without what happened at my last job clouding chances of my success?…

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My daughter is 12. She is so argumentative. When she doesn’t clean up her room, and I tell her to put everything away, we end up fighting – with her giving endless excuses about why it’s not her fault. It’s hurting our relationship. What can I do to stop her arguing all the time?…

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I don’t seem to keep my resolutions although I start off well. What would keep me on track and how would I know if I want the right thing anyway?

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I’m ambitious, honest, and hardworking. I used to have a decent job but decided to quit because I believed that I’d do better on my own. My business isn’t succeeding. I’m so tired of trying that now I’m depressed. I’m tempted to give up but my heart tells me, that is not the way to go. Can you help me?…

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I have a dual reporting system, one local and one to France. I spare no effort in managing both roles but my local boss isn’t happy because the local office pays my salary and yet I’m not fully under his control; and also because I have direct access to top management in Paris…

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My mother is often at the receiving end of my father’s temper. When he’s mad, he’s abusive, but what I can’t understand is why she takes it without retaliating. He has whopped me once or twice but the pain I feel is a hundred times worse when I watch him do it to my mum. How can I help her?…

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I’ve just retired from diplomacy and have started my own business as a consultant. How can I ensure a steady stream of clients? What’s the best way of overcoming the stress of not knowing what happens the next month and the next in terms of income?…

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I’ve a feeling I’ll be made redundant soon and there’s little I’ll be able to do about that. I’m in my mid – forties, been at the same job since I was 25, and everybody just takes me for granted…

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I’ve always been a professional, believing that the company is more important than any individual. As a result, a roof would not collapse under my care, no fraud, nor serious breaches of rules occur……

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My son has a defeatist attitude – he gives up at the smallest obstacle…

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I observed my colleagues arguing and it seemed as though they wanted to resolve matters, but didn’t know how. They would stop… continue; they got nowhere in terms of solutions. Could I have helped if I got involved, or made matters worse by interfering?…

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I’m in Form 5 and I lack the confidence to speak in public. My teachers have said that even though I’m smart, I need to speak up more because communication skills are vital in today’s world. It’s not that I don’t want to; my brain just freezes when I’m in front of a group….

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What if I’m scared to change? What if I want change but I don’t know how I’d cope… you know, I’m sick of being a teacher but I don’t know how to…

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My friend’s husband determines what she does in that he decides how the money is spent, how he wants to raise the children, and what she gets involved in. They appear a loving couple, but I’d feel smothered by that kind of care. She doesn’t have an opinion about anything;…

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I’ve lost hope. I lost money getting involved in business with a friend who cheated me and now the creditors are taking me to court. I owe loan sharks RM 200 000 plus I have study loans I haven’t repaid. My parents are stressed because of me. My life is finished….

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